Just like you wouldn't sit in front of someone and watch them make out with their partner (or watch even more intimate acts), you don't need to break into that part of his life. At the end of the day, the most important thing to remember is that his sexuality is his business. Someone's sexuality is their business.Since it doesn't matter, then you don't have to know, and judging prematurely can only create problems. This piece of information should not have any impact on how you think of him or how you interact with him. Evelyn Hookers research debunked the myth that homosexuals are inherently less mentally healthy than heterosexuals, leading to significant changes in how. Another important thing to remember is that it's not very important whether or not he's gay. Even if he is gay, that should not inform your opinion of him.This is why it's better to ask or just see how things develop between you, rather than just decide for yourself. If you're trying to figure out if your friend is gay because you want to date him (as a woman), it's important to remember that just because he might be interested in men doesn't mean he's not interested in women. He is turned-off by normal sexual activity and accuses you of being. He tries to convince you that all relationships have a decline in sex even when you've only been together for a few years. Being interested in men does not mean he's not interested in women. There is a decline of sexual activity early in your marriage that never picks up again.Eddie’s struggle with his sexuality is taken to the extreme when his coach puts him on a heavy regimen of steroids and leads Eddie onto a path of exploitation to pay for his competition costs. For example, his family may be violently homophobic and by deciding that he's gay, you may out him by accident by treating him different or implying something without meaning to. Brock: TEST is a feature film I have written about an amateur bodybuilder named Eddie, who lives in the Appalachians with his religious mother. By "outing" them, even to yourself, you may be putting them in danger. You may want to know if your friend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're staying closeted. People have good reasons to stay closeted sometimes.